It's a known fact that the life of a 30-year-old lady is way more intense and passionate than one who's 20.
Those in their third decade can confirm how much life changes throughout the years.
A 30-year-old man from Brooklyn told me these factors are what makes older women a turn on. If she hasn’t tried it herself, she’s likely considered it.
She acknowledged ”there was no good reason to end things”, yet, at the time, she was convinced something was missing in the relationship. The other point being made in the article is that many women who spend their 20’s becoming powerful and independent (education, salary, etc.) often end up unhappy in their 30s.
This is because when they finally achieve independence and look for men who have done the same, the realize they’re not looking for powerful, independent women in their 30s; they’re looking for attractive women in their 20s that will make .
And she knows she won’t fall into a million pieces if she doesn’t have a boyfriend. And whereas younger women are putting you through the paces to see if you can provide her with a life, an identity, and a future, an older woman already knows who she is and what she wants to do—she’d just love someone to share it with.
A friend of mine dated a 40-year-old woman when he was 22 and new to New York.
At this age, you already know your body, you know what you're looking for in a man, and what you like, that's why your life if way different than what it was in your 20s.
When you were 20 years old, you liked to demonstrate that you could get any guy.The perspective of your inner "self" changes, your self-esteem does not depend on other people, and you definitely know what you want.Therefore, if someone wants to mess with your tranquility they should have a really good reason or simply get out of your life.Talking to many women like her, it’s intriguing how many look back on past relationships where they let good men get away because they weren’t ready.American journalist Kate Bolick wrote recently in The Atlantic about breaking off her three-year relationship with a man she described as ”intelligent, good-looking, loyal and kind”. SOURCE: Why Women Lose the Dating Game I see a poetic yet depressing symmetry in this: the women who rejected the introverted, budding alpha in their 20s now seek them in their 30s—but can’t have them because they’re dating younger, more attractive versions of themselves. Courtship really is a harsh petri dish of evolutionary psychology.In fact, your ex will likely friend her on FB (like my old bf’s ex-wife did). When you date a younger woman, he said, you also date all her friends, and it’s “a pain in the fucking ass.” You can’t just go out and do your own thing because she must receive approval from a larger governing body.