He got me appointments to get bloodwork done and also encouraged me to take some time away from school to process.I went to my parent’s house and cried, puked, and cried some more.
After all, this has been my lifelong dream and at 31, I’m not getting any younger. But the truth is he made me the happiest I’ve ever been. Looking back, I feel like there were little signs that should have been red flags: -I swear I saw him looking at personals on Craigslist but I didn’t say anything -He had no boundaries with people.
I asked J to be out (he is currently living at a hotel) and now I am managing a 3BR, 2 ba house by myself and I am also taking care of our pets. I asked J to tell me the truth and I asked how many, how long. He was constantly getting other girl’s phone numbers and adding them on Facebook.
But again, there was always an excuse — anti-depressants, he’s tired from work, he has trouble with libido, etc. I do not blame myself because I know no one should have to police or monitor their significant other. I wish there was a fast forward button so I could see what’s going to happen and I can start down that path right now.
J texts and emails me at least once a day saying how sorry he is, how he has been to a therapist and attended SA meetings.
Usko main chidiya keh kar bulata tha wo hamare padose main rehti thi, 1 saal pehle hi wo yahan rehne aaye the.pariwaar ke saath hamare achhe sambhandh ban gaye the roz ka aana jaana ek doosre ke ghar main…chidiya bhi hamare ghar aati thi mere bachhon ke saath khelne.
Chidiya ke pariwar main uska chota bhai uske maa aur baap the. I’m only a few weeks into finding out the truth about my husband’s Sex Addiction, so I’m still in the shock phase.I met J a little over 2 years ago at a local hospital; he was a nurse and I was a volunteer on the weekends.Magar uski umar ki sabhi bachhe aise hi kapde pehnte the lekin chidiya apni umar ki ladkiyon se badi aur bhari hui dikhti thi.Mere ander use chodne ki ichha us din jaagi jab ek din chidiya school se jaldi wapas aa gayi aur bahar tej baarish ho rahi thi jisse ki wo poori tarah bheeg gayi aur uske gharwale kisi rishedaar ke ghar gaye the, isliye chidiya hamare ghar aa gayi.din meri biwi ki tabiyat kharaab thi isliye main office nahi gaya tha, chidiya ne darwaze per dastak di to maine hi darwaaza khola ” are chidiya aaj jaldi aa gayi tum school se”, “Haan uncle aaj school main games day tha isliye main jaldi aa gayi”.But for some reason, the next morning I went into his email account.