Obviously, I'm not doing too well where I am, so going abroad is a good option for me, and one that I'm interested in doing eventually." - Ghost"Winston, thank you so much for making this website and this forum. I knew something was wrong with the women in America (go after the wrong men, turn down nice guys, etc) and things in America before I discovered your website.
When I discovered your website and read things, the problems were confirmed...
There are many who perhaps feel this too but live in quiet desperation." - dreaux"When I finally found this site, where everything I was feeling was so well elucidated and free from all the extraneous BS that some of the other sites harbored, it made me feel much stronger in my position that all was not well in this society, and I finally received affirmation that I was not "crazy" to feel this way... foreign women it is just sooo much better to meet them, they are easy-going, date them and have sex too... To say that it was INSTRUMENTAL in my choice to not give up on women entirely, but rather to look abroad for women of quality would be an understatement... I have lived abroad and seen the difference in my social life, in how it made me feel inside; and I've also seen the antisocial lame-ass dating scene in the US, and how it undermines a man's confidence and inhibits his ability to simply be himself.
His writing was a home run for me, it's the kind of stuff where if you repeat it here in the USA, people will think that you're crazy.
Winston wasn't trying to change you to be a PUA like other guys try to do.
I am brewing with hot topics in my head and want to write articles just like you.
I have so much to add to what you have to say; even my own ideas about life in general."I will admit Winston's analytical style in his writing is good, VERY GOOD.
Your story resonates with me on every key level you discuss: your faith and spirituality, your height (I'm a shade under 5'6"), and the social and cultural differences between Americans (especially women), and other countries." - Rob"Kudos for having the courage to say what no one else is willing or aware enough to say. and all I can say is you said everything that I have felt and thought. For example, the Dominican Republic and Mexico to name a couple. I just have to say you hit it on the nail with everything you said. We're in the same boat..." - Kenny"As a foreign student living in the US, I love this website. (including the chairman winston) for me I would say there are everybody here (all races, all ages even gender). It is amazing it is marvelous, C'est magnifique "I love this website because I can tell that the most of the people on here are smarter and more knowledgeable then me.
There are many ways of looking at these things but it is evident most of us share the feelings of isolation and wasteland that modern western society has become. truly inspirational stuff." - Parris"HELLO WINSTON! I always surround myself with people who know more then me so I can keep learning and become a better person." - North Americanguy"I am a HUGE FAN OF YOUR WORK. I only wish more men would wake up and see the light like we have." - Marcus"I want everyone on this site to know that Winston is 100% right.
But as I experienced college even more, I soon realized that Winston was right on.
When I went to Mexico by myself, I could see that the claims on Happier Abroad were uncannily true.
Society needs to cultivate strong characters with convictions not conformist drones.
Without contrary opinions to the popularly accepted ones people aren't given a choice." - "When I first stumbled across Happier Abroad, I thought this website was full of nonsense.
After finding this site and realizing that there are a whole world of options, I have regained hope and a will to find the right woman for me." - Simoun"I've been interested in the idea of going to date and possibly marry abroad for several months, but I have only recently started reading this site. It captures perfectly what is wrong with society here in the U. and shows what human beings need to be healthy and function and thrive.