The first thing you really need to do is sit down and have a conversation with your best friend, and a separate conversation with your brother.
Explain that she really hurt your feelings when she started dating him behind your back, and don’t be afraid to tell her how angry it made you.
It’s really important for you to be totally honest here.
Let her know that you feel like she’s not even interested in you anymore because all she does is talk about your brother.
And then figure out what would make everyone more comfortable.
It’s an age-old dilemma: are your friends on or off limits for dating?
On the one hand, you don’t want to ruin the friendship.But then they went behind my back and started dating again, and I found out. I feel so awkward around both of them, so I have stopped hanging out with my best friend as much because she always invites my brother. I can definitely understand where your anger is coming from.I was sooooooo mad, but instead of being mean, I just told them again that it made me uncomfortable. Whenever I’m with her, all she does is talk about my brother and their dates, or texts him nonstop and barely pays attention to me. Your brother and best friend were wrong to go behind your back and start secretly dating, and they’re also wrong to flaunt their relationship in your face knowing how uncomfortable you are with the situation.But the friendship you guys had in the first place should still be a part of your relationship. After all, that’s what drove you two together in the first place.It’s like ‘When Harry Met Sally’, but in real life – you were just friends with someone for years and years, you knew all their unsavoury habits, you wished you could fancy them but you never did – until one day, you suddenly do, and by some miracle, they like you too.’ conversation Because that’s what happens in movies when best friends get together, so it’s compulsory. You wonder why this didn’t happen years earlier And save you both wasting years and years on people who weren’t good enough, didn’t actually like you that much or even broke your heart. No one will ever believe you are together Years later, when you are married with three children, your old friends will still look at you and say ‘Really? ’ will be the phrase du jour, even though you swear you really, really didn’t. There’s no awkward ‘meeting the parents’ dinner Because you’ve known them for years, and they always secretly hoped you guys would date. You’ll tell all your other friends to date their friends So much easier!