If you want to learn how to pick up girls, you’ve just hit the jackpot.This group interview is chock full of expert advice from 32 of planet earth’s best dating coaches and pickup artists.
As obvious as some may seem, it’s easy to forget when you’re in the moment: But if a girl’s investment in the conversation is low – she’s not laughing at your jokes or giving you her full attention, then it’s probably best to end the conversation and walk away. It’s better to cut the conversation short than drag it out. Say “It was great bumping into you, but I have to get going…. it’d be cool to meet up again sometime” Never leave the interaction empty handed.
The ultimate goal of pick up is to ‘close the deal’ in whatever shape or form that may be.
So it’s polite to start with “excuse me” to avoid alarming them. You’ve just met the girl so avoid asking serious questions like, “What do you do for work? Similarly to the opening line, keep your initial conversation simple and situational.
For example if you’re talking to a girl at the train station, ask where she’s heading today. Laughter is the way to a woman’s heart, so if you can banter and joke around she’ll be extremely receptive to the idea of meeting up with you again. ” and she replies with “Brighton” (a seaside town in the UK), you could reply with something like “What to sunbathe?
You need the reassurance a girl likes you before lunging in for the kiss. It’s not cool to ask a girl “Is it OK if I kiss you? Instead, learn to be observationally aware of the situation, pick up on the cues and know the right time to smoothly go in for the kiss.
Here are the common indicators of interest to look out for. As a way of ending the conversation on a high note.
Listen for the answer and build the conversation from there. You’ll freeze to death in this cold weather, you crazy girl”.
If she replies to your question with “I’m heading to London”, try and think up something interesting or witty to say about London in reply. Another example is to reply to a serious question with a stupid answer.
Whether you exchange phone numbers, go in for the kiss or take a girl home with you, ultimately depends on the situation.
If you meet a girl at 8.50am in Starbucks on your morning commute to work, you’d settle for a quick number exchange.
Just like we all hate to be harassed by street sellers and charity collectors, observational awareness is important. By transferring over your positive emotions she’ll feel relaxed and enjoy the moment too. Slowww everything right dowwwn, speak up to get her attention, and don’t mumble. Women are perceptive creatures and will smell a ‘fake’ a mile away. Radiate the positive qualities you possess because self assurance is sexy. Telling a girl you’re a dolphin trainer by day and a black-belt Muay Thai fighter by night will inevitably have repercussions.