When I talk about my fleeting romance, my sister gets angry with me. What I did was messed up because I went forward with my feelings without being totally sure of them. Looking back, my actions were exactly like what ex-boyfriends have done to me. If you're going to attempt a same-sex relationship, you should first figure out if you're someone who can function in a same-sex relationship.
She laments that I'm messing up everything she's worked for and that I should shut up because I’m straight. Things burned out so quickly that there wouldn't have been a point anyway. I ruined one of the most amazing friendships I’d ever had. I was desperate for love and was willing to take it from anyone who was handing it out. What I did to Rae wasn't about sexual preference; it was about me being scared, selfish, and utterly conflicted. There is a sizable difference between having fun and screwing with someone's emotions, however unintentional.
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My sister is a lesbian and absolutely hates when I talk about this, especially publicly.
When she came out at 15, my parents were understanding and supportive in spite of not really understanding lesbianism or the LGBT community in general.
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Yes, I had a really great time going to bars and clubs and sleeping with women.
But I didn't see myself pursuing anything serious with any of them.
They say alcohol-fueled words are sober truths; but I had a bit of a drinking problem -- and a bigger issue with taking a long, sober look at what I'd done the night before.
We'd wake up the next day and act like nothing happened.
It didn't take long for me to completely freak out.