" Before she began sharing her expertise about the opposite sex, Alison worked on children's issues and programs to help the homeless in Orange Country, CA.
She hopes that helping people with their relationships will make for better marriages, stronger families, and healthier, happier children. I'm constantly trying to find out what's really going on here, how does this work, what could we say or do differently to get what we want out of life.
The more we understand that men are distinct, the easier it is to admire them. She also has workshops just for men, to help them better understand what makes women tick.
There are ways that men think, ways that they approach things that women often don't have. If you can't make it to a workshop site, Alison offers a CD set called In Sync with the Opposite Sex.
I want to preface this by saying that I know there are exceptions but for the sake of clarification, I’m going to be speaking about the way men and women are .
Women naturally gravitate towards the idea of marriage and see it as highly appealing.
It means I'm always trying to improve and make things better. The only way that I have discovered that men and women are alike is in our core desire.
A desire to be loved, a desire to be accepted exactly the way that we are.
A man, when he feels happy, it's his upper chest and shoulders and neck that fill with energy. As a woman, if I love you and you love me, we should get married. For a man, that he loves a woman is just one of many factors.
One big thing he's going to consider is if she fits with the life that he envisions for himself, his goals.
So if I make him lunch to take to work with him, that's appreciation. Men are attracted to and admire and desire successful women.