And it's not a bad thing, especially if you're looking for marriage.
But if you come to another married person and, on the outset say, 'I'm attached and this is what I'm looking for,' there is that expectation of a mutual destruction concept, that is, 'I am going to keep this to myself but the golden rule is that our partners should never find out about this.' That is why Ashley Madison is so attractive to people.
You're engaged in a community where you know that you're all attached.
One primary reason men visit the site is that they are in a sexless marriage, or they are getting very vanilla sex in their lives.
This is my hypothesis, there is so much access to adult material on the web that these men see the others' user-generated adult content and they start thinking, "Oh my goodness my neighbor is a swinger, my neighbor is having threesomes." And they're thinking, not only have they not had sex for three weeks, it's the same old missionary position and with the same person every night.
Noel: Everything we did from inception was to make women feel comfortable; the two most popular names that were out in 2001, when we developed the concept, were Ashley and Madison.
The women named their children that, so they must have some kind of affinity for those names.
You can insert your shock and awe face right here, folks.
Zondra: Briefly, what is the origin of the name, Ashley Madison?
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