Okay, now that that’s out of the way; it’s the other would-be Rainbeau daters, who bother the hell out of me.
These folks are the ones that go around touting as proof positive of equality, social advancement and worse, the magic solution to cure all problems within the black community.
It's hard enough to be a woman of color out here, so before you pull out your A-game ice-breaker of a race comment, stop and think.
Do you actually want to get to know us or are you just looking to mark off a checklist?
And if there are folks willing to read it, than you can place the blame solely on black media for continuing to cater to their audience. So much for thinking that the milk is less spoiled on the other side.
Which leads me to ask: If the color of the person we choose to date doesn’t matter, why do we talk about it so much? Truth is, championing dating interracially to empower the black community, particularly black women, is no more logical or rational than the colorblind racists, who believe that breeding ourselves into one in-between race will fix the world (yeah, like that worked for the Chinese and the Japanese).
So obviously these stories are very popular, which is why these publications continue to put them out. are still looking, waiting and idolizing the white savior.
After all, stories mean page clicks, and page clicks equates to dollars. Yet science says that some of the same problems we find within the community can also be found interracially: In fact, the rate of divorce and domestic violence is much higher within interracial relationships and the incidence of spousal homicide is 7.7 higher in interracial relationships than in monoracial relationships.
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