Written by: Michael Bremmer Certainties in life are few, but death and sin are definitely two. These are not philosophical speculations, but the obvious facts of human experience.
And these facts all worldviews must explain — especially a Christian worldview. The doctrines of the fall of man and original sin answer these questions.
Nothing will replace the excitement of, and the satisfaction from, having new experiences with new female partners, and it would be pointless to try to change such a guy.
This has always been, is, and will always be at the core of male nature among humans and many other living beings.
For some men this stage of life is short, and by late 20’s or early 30’s they “snap” out of it.
Men’s tendency to cheat on the women they date and even have strong feelings for is one of the most common and the most painful issues that women have to deal with in their relationships with guys.
So many women can recount numerous relationships during which they found out that their guy was not faithful.
Sometimes, they guy would be cheating on them with some random girl that he met at work or at a bar, while at other times it would be someone the girl knew fairly well or it was even her friend.
Being scarred by prior disappointments in guys who cheated on them, many women are unable to enjoy their present relationship, even when everything seems to be great, because of that constant fear that sooner or later their boyfriend, or a husband will cheat on them, just like the others did in the past.
Feeling that they missed out on all the fun of being single and free for their ten, fifteen or twenty years of married life, they are very eager to make up for it by reverting to a 20’s lifestyle of going out to bars and clubs as often as possible, being active on a bunch of different dating sites, and taking other steps to meet and have sex with as many women as possible, including traveling to other countries where sex is more available.
They don’t know what they are doing with their bodies, hands and mouth.
There is more to that drive than just trying to get laid.
The desire to be liked and attract women is one of the most significant ways through which men are able to validate their masculinity and sense of self worth.
The Word of God says, “When the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was desirable to make one wise, she took from its fruit and ate; and she gave also to her husband with her, and he ate” (Gen. Because of Adam’s sin, God pronounced a curse on both Adam and Eve.