No excessive unwelcome private messaging - Ask first. No scrolling text, excessive audio emoticons or other disruptive activity. Do not drop web addresses or links in the chat room for commercial sites or products. If the chat room does not load, or if only a grey box is shown, you may download Java from the Sun Microsystems Java Plugin web site. Java is the most powerful extension to web technology available today, and no browser is complete without it.
If you must use a term, rather than a person's name, perhaps the term transgendered is the least offensive of all the terms.
This is a generic term that fits most t-girls and is rarely offensive.
You will want to carefully choose your words so you don't come off as offensive.
Good grammar and spelling is important, so don't get sloppy just because you're communicating electronically.
A few simple questions will reveal many of these undesirable traits.
Be honest and forthright in your communications and expect the same from others.
We won't blast you with many emails, just a few when telling you about us is important.
Our prior chat service was increasingly intolerant of adult oriented conversations. After testing a number of adult-oriented shemale chat rooms we were impressed with this service. Some of the men I have spoken with tell me that nobody else can make them feel the way a t-girl can make them feel.
Others are bisexual (your chances are improving here). A dialog should be able to resolve any remaining questions you might have.
Some t-girls are looking for men, others are looking for women. Some live full-time as females, others live part-time as females. Remember that you're looking for someone who will compliment what you're looking for and your job is to narrow the field to those who are looking for someone just like you!
Use proper terminology - You will quickly learn that not all t-girls like being called shemales.