Most of all, she’s questioning her own judgment, which is the hardest thing to do when you pride yourself on being intelligent and rational. And I’m betting that you’re a lot better off without that guy than you are with him. So if Tami wants to know where she went wrong in choosing her husband… So the next time you’re dating a guy, don’t get too sucked in by his charm or his wit or his looks or his money…
He keeps you a secret from family and/or friends I have girlfriends that any guy should be proud to say he was dating, and yet these women have never met his friends or his family.
Your first thought is perhaps he is married or has another girlfriend, but if you are certain this is not the case, this relationship is probably doomed. If you catch him flirting by text, e-mail, or Facebook, you need to re-think this guy. Not making time for you, taking you for granted or putting his friends before you If you feel like you are an afterthought to him, or if it seems he only has time for you if there is nothing better to do (after his workout/softball game/ night out with the guys), this relationship is going nowhere fast.
You don’t treat people like this, why would you tolerate a man who did? No job/has a job but does not support himself financially If your man is constantly strapped for cash, borrowing money from you and his friends (let’s not even mention his mom, okay? It’s one thing to be bad with money, not being able to balance a checkbook or figure out a tip, but it’s another thing completely to be a grown man and not be financially responsible. But before you know it, you will find that your confidence is undermined and you will begin to doubt everything from the clothes you wear to the movies you enjoy.
Don’t tolerate this behavior, just politely break things off and move on to a guy who appreciates how fabulous you really are.
But if you're determined to play a player, whether it's to seek revenge on a player who broke your heart or just to have some fun with a smooth-talking Romeo, you can do it just by playing hard to get, making the player want you, and then cutting him loose when he least expects it.
If you want to know how to play a player and have him eating out of your hand in no time at all, then just follow these steps.
Rather than wasting your time or worse, getting played and feeling dumb, you start to wonder where this can go or if it should go anywhere.
The following is for the girls who are "talking to someone," but haven't decided how close they should get to him.
One of the most common things I hear from my clients is this: “I understand that I have to compromise on some things to be in a relationship, but how do I know WHAT I should compromise on? Yesterday, I was instant messaging an old friend on Facebook.