Male spit is laden with testosterone which, when passed onto an unsuspecting partner, makes them want to get naughty.
Kiss off: Show her that you’re not really the sex-crazed brute she thinks you are.
You don’t have to copy mine, what do YOU like about her?
If you give more than 4, you risk sounding desperate and you might make her feel self-conscious or uncomfortable.
Kiss off: “Don’t go in with the tongue right away,” says Dr Yvonne Fulbright, author of , “men see it as being passionate – women see it as being choked.
Instead, use time as a tease and get her titillated with simpler manoeuvres before making things wet.” Start by planting a small tender kiss on each lip before placing soft, dry, relaxed kisses over the entire mouth.
So since you asked ME this question, I say avoid the kiss and give her a goodnight hug.
Make it a good hug: linger, breathe, be present, squeeze.
The feeling of being safe and warm in your arms will linger with her far after you leave her door.
You may feel like being “a gentleman” requires you to be fake or boring.
A study by the University of California found that men prefer their kisses to be 33 per cent sloppier and with 11% more tongue than women.
This is because, while she’s trying to judge you on your kissing style, you are subtly trying to up the ante by slipping her a hormonal love drug.
The truth is this list gives you plenty of room to be authentic. For example: you are now free to discuss religion, politics, and past relationships (keep this one to a minimum.) You can start to flirt a little more heavily and see if she has a good sense of humor about it.