There’s just something about a good name paired with a tasteful photo that makes me stop and notice, but most of the names guys use are terrible.” Mike is a current student in the e Dating Doc Academy. We started by changing his photos, profile and email exchanges so they work together. As an experiment, we saved his username for last, which as I mentioned before, along with your picture, is your first impression. C-3po and R2-D2 from Star Wars will love that username!!! Tip: I advise against using your name in your username unless it’s something that’s really witty like — Mike Like AMint because it can take away mystery. Simply that your username should trigger a pleasant feeling for the girl. For example: The username – Feels Like LOVE – is waaaay too romantic/mushy.
Mike is a marine, so we included a great photo of him in uniform. How can we tie being a Marine into his username in a way that women will find irresistible? A Marine is the modern day Knight, so what better name than Mike In Shining Armor?! This creates a connection between those pleasant feelings and YOU. If you were to use that, the girl will think you’re a boring pile of mush.
A lot of creativity, time and money also goes into selecting the perfect name for a character in a movie to appeal to a certain audience. Well not until some smart marketers decided to change the name to Chilean Seabass. Restaurants could not give away the Patagonian Toothfish but the Chilean Seabass became super popular & is now being overfished. And just like the Chilean Seabass with this workbook and about 15 minutes of brainstorming, you’ll be able to create an irresistible username that will have you on your way to being the most popular fish in the online dating sea. Here are a few examples: • Bamboozled By Paper Clips • Smarty Pants • Nerdy Ninja Hugs • Laughing My Ass Off • Lips Potato Chips Now let’s look at how to connect to romantic feelings without being too mushy.
A few kick-ass character names are: Tyler Durden, Morpheus and Donnie Darko. It sounds like some prehistoric monster fish that evolved one long squirly bucktooth. Some girls love romantic usernames and have wonderful feelings associated with fairytale relationships so let’s use some romantic cliches.
On the other side of the coin, be sure to stay away from usernames that connect to negative feelings or can in anyway be interpreted in a bad way . The last example Da Gift2Womens takes us to my final tip to evoke positive associations.
Here are a few actual usernames I found online that project the wrong image. Always use properly spelled words in your username. You could come off like an uneducated dumbass or she may think the guy behind the profile has the maturity level of a 14 year old.
Yes, I know, cliches aren’t the ideal, but if you give them a twist and make them your own: They can be, A-W-E-S-O-M-E. If your name happens to be Tom, I just thought of an irresistible username for you, and we’ll use this example so that you better understand my point about clichés. That’s Romantic, Funny and Creative – triple awesome!
A romantic cliché you can use is Once Upona Time but change it to…. Ok – Ok, whoever uses that, when you get your dream girl, you owe me big time!
Play around with the capitalization of your username to see what LOOKS the best.
Tip: Some dating sites like Ok Cupid allow the use of dashes — in the username.
you wouldn’t go on a date wearing swimming trunks, a dress shirt and boots right?
You want everything matching, looking good & working together.
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