How much does it straight up fuck with you when you hear someone refer to their boyfriend or girlfriend as their partner?
My boyfriend and I started dating when we were 16 and you aren’t ever going to hear me call him my partner.
Obviously he did not protest…because it was exactly what he wanted.)This is because he feels a lot of guilt from falling out of love.
And the easiest way to relieve this guilt is by convincing himself that the feelings are mutual and in fact, you don’t love him anymore either. How relieved would you be if you stopped loving a guy but knew that he feels the same and won’t be heart-broken by it when you tell him?
Do you feel like your boyfriend’s love is fading away?
Is there a little nagging voice inside that keeps telling you that something is off?
In the worst case scenario, another woman has already gotten on his radar and that’s why he is being secretive.
My ex boyfriend all of a sudden started taking his phone everywhere with him, including the bathroom. This does not have to be the end and you don’t have to sit there waiting for the ax to fall. More than that, you can, with the right knowledge, make your boyfriend WAKE UP and see the beautiful, smart and loving woman he has standing right in front him.
This was of course a load of BS, but I couldn’t handle the underlying message and stayed with him for a whole month after he moved out from our apartment.
Every day I waited for him to change his mind and come back, until a month later I told him I can’t do this anymore and broke up with him.
That’s what’s going in his mind (probably subconsciously). If your boyfriend does one of these things: My ex boyfriend not only found stupid excuses to avoid seeing me, calling me and answering my texts, but made sure I found out he was lying.