Another reason is language barrier that is unfortunately present in the majority of cases.
How to choose moment to start communicating with a lady in a real-time mode? There's nothing wrong with it as it seems from the first sight.
But if you look deeper you'll see that this approach has a lot of minuses. Secondly, without having enough information about each other conversation partners may fail to find common themes for discussion.
It's unthinkable to refuse a miracle of real communication.
Not all gentlemen are in a hurry to use this opportunity even if they are willing to. The thing is, they are afraid of presenting themselves not in the most favorable light before a lady or being disappointed with her.
You'll help a lady obtain necessary knowledge and skills being attentive to her. Praise her even for taking some steps on her way to overcoming language barrier. And some people were ridiculed by their peers in their childhood.
Compliment her as often as possible for any achievements. Growing up such person is afraid of making a mistake.
People before a phone talk with a virtual acquaintance unintentionally picture them.
But when a real conversation happens, it usually turns out that expected and real images are not the same.
Russian women are usually selflessly struggling against difficulties.
This national trait shows itself to the most, if overcoming of obstacles gives the opportunity to love and be loved. What if she doesn't understand your humor and gets hurt? Imagine that there is a little child instead of your partner. In the process of learning an adult has his child's part of personality active which is curious, but tender and sensitive. The second reason of language barrier lies in unpleasant childhood worries associated with learning of foreign language or something else.
Message exchange is excellent practice for overcoming of language barrier.