(There is a way to tell for sure if he’s in this mindset or not – I’ll get to that in a bit…) One of the ways that a guy WILL tell you right out that is by saying something to the effect of: “I care about you.” OR: “You’re special to me.” Perhaps not in those exact words, but it will sound very much like that.
The French are always so concerned with philosophy and life… We just don’t grasp death, or it – or even talk about it.
So a lot of our songs focus on death.” Then the French woman asks the American woman what our songs are about in the United States. Guys are a bit unforgiving about this little hangup.
Or, more accurately, first, a younger male friend commandeered my Tinder account (he agreed with my therapist wholeheartedly) and then I changed it still more, because dating, like life, is something of a group effort sometimes.
It took a week and a few glasses of wine but I did it.
The instinct to provide AND protect is practically encoded into his DNA.
It’s what makes him who he is – and a BIG part of what makes him FULFILLED as a MAN.
It may feel annoying at times, but take it as a sign that you’re in his thoughts. It’s when he that you have the most reason for concern.
When he no longer feels that there’s something at stake, it also means he’s no longer invested in the relationship.
It’s literally at how hard he’s working for your love.