By now, Im sure you want to find a balance in this as well.
I read your tweets tonight and I felt they were very insensitive.
” Interpreting the comment as an allusion to Keys’ relationship with Swizz, Mashonda writes that after two years of attempts to reach Keys, she’s only received “constant displays of selfishness and disconcern [sic] to me and my son” in return.
Already I can hear some of you saying ” why are u blaming her, You cant make someone leave their wife, You cant break something thats broken”. As far as me blaming her and not blaming him, thats false. How is this the same Superwoman that I sang out loud with in my truck? If you are reading this Alicia, let me start by saying, you know what you did.
Well, my marriage was not broken, as far as I knew we were celebrating our sons birth and getting ready to celebrate our 5 year wedding anniversary . You know the role you played and you know how you contributed to the ending of my marriage.
I feel that after 1 and a half years of you hiding this affair and acting like it doesnt exist, that now is the time to confront it, since you talk so openly about it now This is not a publicity stunt, I dont have a record coming out.
I just need to close this chapter in my life and that means confronting our issues. His dad loves him to death and he wants to spend more time with him but hes afraid because he knows we don’t have a relationship. My son NEEDS his dad and I NEED to be comfortable with you. I know many will see my point and many will not be able to look into what’s real because they only want to see Alicia Keys the celebrity, not the human. Like I said I was left no choice but to reach out to you this way.
I felt me attending the party would have been a starting point for us, since you shook my hand after I offered it, but I suppose I was wrong. Stay blessed and lets work this thing out with respect and dignity.
If its so, that you and my husband are meant to be together, then God bless you both and I hope you never have to deal with what I did. If you two being together forever is the case, its more of a reason for us to get along, because I’m not going anywhere.
For over 3 years, Alicia Keys has been branded a homewrecker ever since she first started dating her now-husband Swizz Beatz.
After news broke that Swizzy was still very much married to his wife, at the time, Mashonda Tifrere, Alicia remained quiet for years about being the woman who allegedly broke up Swizz and Mashonda's relationship. Alicia finally defends herself for the first time when you read on....
I believed in her until I found out she was possibly sleeping with my husband.
The affair was denied by both, until it was finally admitted months later. I accept his choices and I am comfortable enough with myself to move on. My concern with AK is no longer the fact that she assisted in destroying a family but that she has the audacity to make these selfish comments about love and wanting to be with someone, even after knowing their situation.
“I feel that after [one] and a half years of you hiding this affair and acting like it [doesn’t] exist, that now is the time to confront it, since you talk so openly about it now…